Who are your friends? I mean the people who tell you what you should be told,not what you want to hear. Those who emphasize on your strength,not your weakness. Those who stick closer than a brother/sister without fear of prejudice. Those who don't hesitate to tell you the truth,no matter how bitter,even when others are lying to you through flattery. Those people whose friendship/relationship is symbiotic (give and take) not parasitic(takers),or carnivorous(crushers,the put-downers). Those who are not afraid to puncture your inflated ego,not massage it. Those who,though are aware of your mess,but do not turn it to their ''message.'' Those who want you to improve and be better. Those who are not contented with you remaining at the same level. Those who are not Chameleons:one person in front of you and another behind you. Those who see the best in you,even when you can barely see good. Those who are supporters not fans. Those who encourage,motivate and inspire you to greater heights. Those who celebrate you and with you at all times,not only during special occasions. Those who add value to your life,not devalue your life. Your choice of association is key to your success in life.